“What happens in cradles and kitchens will prove to be more effective than what goes on in Congress.”
I don’t know who said it, but man, I hope its true! I really hope that one day, all the breaking up of MMA-style fights and explaining that we don’t always get the specific colored bowl we want will make a difference.
In my heart, deep down, past the doubt and the sheer exhaustion, I know it will, but I struggle to remember this on a daily basis when my days seem like a constant blur of nursing, potty training, schooling, snack fetching, and character teaching. Recently, the Lord has brought Proverbs 31:27-28 to the forefront of my heart and mind:
“She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children arise and call her blessed;
Her husband also, and he praises her.”
I think probably 80% of the time, when someone asks me “How are you?”, I respond with “tired” or “busy” and sometimes that bothers me. Sometimes, I feel like I should respond with a “Blessed and highly favored” or “you know, just loving that mom life” but reality is, it ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. ITS OKAY. Its okay and this verse reminds me of that.
Clearly, even the forever-put-on-a-pedestal “Proverbs 31” woman was busy. Homegirl wasn’t idle (but for real, y’all, did someone say bread? hashtag all the carbs), so I’m willing to bet that sometimes she was tired with a side of busy. For me though, the real kicker is verse 28: “Her children arise and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her.”
One day, my little people are going to be big people and those big people are going to do big things. They’re going to be lawyers or garbage men or teachers or MMA fighters (if this trend with my redhead keeps up) and I want them to use those gifts for Christ and to bring Him honor in their life’s work. What better way to teach than to lead by example?!
SO, while I would love for my 4-year-old to arise and call me blessed instead of arising and complaining about what we’re eating for breakfast, what I’m doing matters. I’m sowing seeds that will be ready for harvest before I know it.
From the toddler trenches,